Okay, so it was over an eight hour drive back from North Carolina. But we got home by 8:30 PM Friday night. It would have been nice if John had thanked me for getting us all home safely and then helped me unpack the car, but that didn't happen. I guess I'll just have to get used to that.
I unloaded all our bags and stuff alone, the girls were tired and didn't feel like helping. Saturday morning we got up to go to Dave's moms services at 9:00. They were nice services. When we got back I started carrying the bags upstairs and putting their clothes away. It was obvious that John didn't do any housekeeping while I was away so I had to do four loads of laundry and clean all the bathrooms right away. Then I vacuumed. Then in the afternoon he took the girls out for a late lunch while I stayed home and totally cleaned Sarah's room. Sorted out her drawers, closet and unecessary toys. Took out three trash bags from her room. John could have at least made her bed and put clothes away while we were gone, but again, what was I thinking?
It was also obvious Saturday morning that he did absolutely no grocery shopping while we were away. Only to the wine shop. He had no eggs, bread, butter or milk even. Good LORD!! So after I wrote out the bills to cover the girls before school program and their school lunches AND my security deposit on the townhouse I honly had $94 left.. so that's what I had to use to do groceries. He didn't offer a single dime from his check. I was pissed. I had helped him do his bills for the house and he even made a comment that he wasn't expecting to pay August bills alone since I had lived there too. Well what the HELL?? I was in obx for two of those weeks WITHOUT his help!!! He had over $700 left in his account. So finally by the time the weekend was over he had offerred me money if I had needed it for gas or food till my next pay and said he was just trying to get used to having to do his own bills.
I still think he was trying to make me suffer because he feels ALL of this is my fault. I know he just wants to be spiteful and lash out any way he can right now. But...hey - I'll live off of bread if it means I get to be away from him. We are both becoming very bitter. And personally I don't like myself like that and don't want the girls to EVER see me that way. He's extremely valatile right now and I just need to get out as soon as possible.
So last night I went to sign my lease for the townhouse. She said she was getting the carpets cleaned and faucet replaced first. And because I couldn't have October's rent till next payday she wouldn't be able to let me move in till the 16th. So... after I spoke with Lori, she offerred me the money till then and now I should be able to move by this weekend. GOD that will be so nice - she knows how much I need to get out and she really cares about me too. It was VERY generous of her to lend me the $$ till then. I am so very lucky to have a friend like her. I haven't told Rod yet that I may be in by this weekend - don't want to jinx it!!
8:29 a.m. - 2005-09-07
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