Thursday, March 16th.
Well this will be one Happy St. Patrick's Day for sure! And I probably wont' even go out tomorrow night to drink!
Last night John and I made it down to the attorney's office to finally sign those fuckin settlement agreement papers. WOOOHOOOO!!! We are officially divorced now. I should have my divorce decree in about a week.
The agreement? To sell the damn house and split the proceeds. I wasn't happy about that, but in the end it was the fairest solution I suppose. Even though this does mean now that we both risk having to move the girls out of the schl district if we can't find a place to buy in our town. He could probably care less about that.
He was being so stubborn these past few weeks about all of this. The stress was almost too much to stand at times. Not sure where I would be without Sam. He's been an absolute angel!
Lori has really beent here too, but her "updates" were more than I could bare at times as well. Just knowing he's bitching and complaining about all my efforts to be "nice" to him would just piss me off more. Good for the stress huh?
Anyway now he is no longer my responsibility. The girls are the only thing that ties me to him and I can handle that. Besides...they love Sam. They've even began referring to him as their StepDad. Hehe - imagine that. I couldn't be any luckier.
Sam now just has to get his papers finalized with his ex-wife. We have the same attorney so I feel confident he'll make that happen quickly too.
This weekend we are supposed to be going over to John's while he's in OCMD so we can fix a hole in the drywall and finish up the master bathroom to put the house up for sell. Thanks John - you've been NO help. I'm so glad to be done with him! Well okay now we have to split up our furniture and a bunch of other stuff, but that should be relatively painless.
On another note, we finally heard who the director will be for our agency. Its good news and it means our positions should be posted soon so now we will be able to apply for our jobs again. How fucked up is that? Apply for you job? Eh - not worried about it in the slightest. Just hoping to move offices as soon as possible so my parking is closer and means I can actually drive places on my lunch hour!
That's about it.....
1:24 p.m. - 2006-03-16
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