Well, the real question is will February bring on better friendships?
Yesterday during work Sam and I got an e-mail from the one who calls herself BFF, Jen.
It stated that she misses hanging with us and realizes that part of the reason we don't has to do with her. She admitted to selfishly trying to please everyone and stepping on toes along the way. Funny.
I guess she doesn't get it. It was never about trying please everyone. If we don't have her undivided attention, it doesn't mean we go into fits of rage. What DID bother us was that she appeared jealous of Sam and I having a date night that didn't include her. And in retaliation she scheduled a night with other friends, then PURPOSELY lied (to a point of making it obvious that she's lying)to mock how our date night apeared to her.
Sad part is, even though it was obvious she was lying...restating her comments and making all sorts of "I'm lying to you gestures" she would probably be adament that she wasn't lying if we call her out on it. It was all so stupid. We could care less if they made plans with other people just because she got hurt that we didn't include her in our date night. But really...her statements about their evening began like this: When we called those guys to meet us...uh ummm I mean when we ran into them totally unexpectedly.....at the the G-Man....
Seriously? Wow....go back to high school, right?
So the tension has been there since this initially happened back in November. She continued with keeping things secretive and saying they didn't have plans when they di and so on. We never stopped being honest with them, but on the same note Sam couldn't even stand being in Jen's presence!
So I guess she realized when I would show up to do things with her and still invite her for morning coffee and Sam would either not join or make himself scarce. LOL - believe me...I did enjoy seeing this although I'm shocked how long he will carry a grudge. Let this be known for the record he is 3-times worse than I am at burying the hatchett!!
Hell I forgave the girl that slept with my boyfriend when I was 18. We became roommates 6 months later and I was even in her wedding....to that boyfriend's brother...hehe. Oh sorry, don't want to get of course here....
So we finally responded back to Jen that we still love them very much, but we do need to discuss the amosity we've been feeling.
Later in the day, her Sam replied that we were C-R-A-Z-Y! That they were never mad at us and so on. Ummmm....wtf?? We didn't imply they were mad, we said we felt SHE...JEN...was playing games with us. We didn't come right out and say we were mad that she lied. I believe we phrased it with "We've had a difficult time being around you guys because of the tension we've felt over our date night, so we've been laying low"
Sam C. is the type of person who tries to sweep everything under the carpet. My Sam and I talked about it on our drive home and decided we better respond that we dont' want this to be swept under a carpet, but we should discuss it it detail.
The three responses we received after that all came from Sam. I was wondering at that point if Jen was fuming that we didn't take her comment and totally dismiss it like (ex:Oh Jen, honey...you did nothing wrong...it was us....please don't think you've done something wrong...) Yeeeeeah! That wasn't going to happen. I have a feeling our responses haven't been sitting right with her all night. Oh well.
She hasn't poked me on FB all day....heehee.
Okay, so when we do all sit down together it should be more fun to watch her face and see the expressions when she realizes she fucked up. I do love her...don't get me wrong, but as my Sam has stated, she's not happy unless everyone is dancing around her and begging her for attention. The Shrine of Jen he calls it. LOL
Okay - enuf said for the day!
Just had to get that quick status update on the drama that surrounds the neighbors we enjoy the most...enjoyed...have enjoyed and would like to keep enjoying. :)
~later
12:52 p.m. - 2010-02-03
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