I'll never understand how grown people can play games and act like they aren't. I'm 44 years old - I'm an adult. Give it to me straight...and certainly don't insult my fucking intelligence with head games.
Yes, I'm griping about Sam again. After a dispute this morning where I felt he was putting a negative spin on something involving my daughter, he stopped speaking to me. Beginning of the game....
I don't want to be the one to always call him out or else I get blamed for being a bitch or dramatic. Umm....right. HE's the one playing games!!! Ugh!
First of all he slept in til 11:30, because I care enough to allow him to get plenty of rest. He did thank me when he came down this morning, but it just all went south from there!
After I finished cleaning up the kitchen when he said he didn't want any breakfast that he would prefer to wait for lunch, I decided to go upstairs and rest. I've been up since 5:30 a.m. and that's after going to bed around 1 a.m. last night.... so yeah, I was tired.
Before I knew it about 20 minutes later he decides he will just take Sammy and go for a ride. He didn't even ask me if I wanted to go or that he was even going. As soon as I heard Sammy asking where they were going, I got out of bed. Next thing I hear is them pulling out of the drive way. WTH???
When I left for the grocery store this morning to go get milk for Sammy and the girls, I immediately told him where I was going. Its just a courteous thing to do and I didn't want him to worry and also so he could keep an ear out for Sammy getting up.
He does this all the time. Goes for rides without me. This is part of his many games. So of course I text immediately and ask where he is. He says he went for a ride with Sammy. An hour later...nothing. Two hours later....nothing. Its 2:30 and I was getting hungry for lunch. More texts... me asking where he is and if he's coming back any time soon. I told him I was bored. Then I told him I was hurt he didn't ask me to go with him.
Of course he didn't say sorry or anything. He simply texts back that I was sleeping. Um....no, I wasn't.
God - I hate when he plays games like this. I wait all week for him to be home so we can do family stuff and this is what he does. Drinks all night, Sleeps all morning, then sneaks out for 3-4 hours without me.
Games!!! I hate them!
3:18 p.m. - 2012-04-28
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