BOOZE CRUISE!!!!
Wow what an incredible weekend.... We got to Baltimore about 2:00 Saturday afternoon. It was about 65� so we walked around for a while. Then we found ourselves at the Tri Na La something or another Irish Pub - so we had a beer, just one..... It was a fuckin beautiful thing! I can�t say enough about how much I enjoy being with Sam. He means the world to me and is absolutely adorable. It never ends with that man!
Around 4:30 we met Lori and Dave back at the hotel. We had a few glasses of wine then went to dinner BACK AT THE IRISH PUB!! Too funny! It was a delicious dinner. I actually had Shepard�s Pie and I�m allergic to peas!! Couldn't resist though - it looked sooo good -Oh well.
The cruise was great though. As soon as we boarded they handed us a beer. Lori and I said no thanks and went directly for mixed drinks at the bar. We both got a Vodka Tonic and kept on from there. It was a Vodka Cranberry, then some kind of blue drink and a few others, then I switched off to Sprite plain and simple. There was great music being played by two bands and an awesome DJ on the first deck. We danced our assess off!!!! Had so much fun. I love that Sam danced with me most of the time but there were times when either he or I would have to go for a drink or off to the bathroom or out for some refreshing night air. Then it would be a while till we found each other again, lol. You couldn�t help but dance with others on your way across the room either, just one big happy party. It was also a very CLEAR night great for hanging out on the outside decks!
Sometime about 10:30 I lost site of poor Sammy. Started getting really worried that he fell overboard, lol. I laugh now, but I was sick with worry by midnight when I couldn�t� find him anywhere! Turns out he was kind of hiding on the middle deck (it�s a three tier cruise ship) puking his ever-living guts out. Oh my. Poor boy. He was so drunk, but even drunk I could tell he was embarrassed and didn�t want to come out of that �area�.
Lori and I walked him back to the hotel and he almost threw up in the elevator � that was an even funnier story. His cheeks ballooned out and everyone on the elevator gasped for air like a cable broke! ha ha ha soooo funny!!! And it was almost 1:30 AM by this point. I couldn�t believe how many people were just getting back to that hotel at that hour.
The next morning though Sam was actually fine. He wasn�t even hurting and I had a tad bit of a headache and a mean craving for some GREASE! We all went down to the hotel restaurant for some breakfast then headed back home.
So now time to vent here..... A time for observation!!
Divorce is such a messy thing. And it just doesn�t have to be. It ends up being more about neither person wants to LOOK like they got screwed in any way. Each person wants to appear as though THEY have the upper hand and that THEY were the one who was always in the right. Even if they did in fact do something wrong to cause the divorce. I believe 90% of divorces are a result of both parties doing something wrong.... but that's just one gal's opinion here. I admit I did something wrong. First, I should have been honest - ALWAYS. Second, I should have never given into my feelings with a total stranger and had a relationship before my marriage was completely finished, but it did help me push towards doing what I had to do. Wrong? Yes!.....but necessary!
So, this is where all of this comes into play....
After Lori and Dave got back from Baltimroe Sunday they had John and the girls over for dinner. Then yesterday (Tuesday) she tells me ALL about it!! Probably not the smartest thing since it got me a little worked up. She said he griped the WHOLE time about me. Of course they were drinking wine which is what made him so verbal. But he went on and on. About a bunch of stuff, including Sam fixing his computer. He even made a comment that it was the least Sam could do for him since he was FUCKING his wife. Lori had to remind John that I�m no longer his wife. And then again that he shouldn't be talking like that with the girls RIGHT there in the room! But of course hearing this from Lori wasn't sitting right with me. Just knowing he wasn�t even grateful for Sam�s help pissed me off even more!!! Then he continued to say all sorts of bad things about me in front of my girls??? What the hell?? I NEVER DO THAT!!! NEVER!!!!
Lori said he made a mention that he refuses to transfer the house to me. That after I said all I know is I sure hope he doesn't try to renig his offer of the house. The deal is that he gets one year to re-finance (which he�ll never be able to do on his own) and I�ll sign the house over to him to do that. Clear and free no money exchanged. If he can�t.... then he�ll extend that same offer to me. Apparently Sunday night he said he will make me sell it before he JUST signs it over. Oh pallleeeeeeze.
So, I called my attorney. We will have it written in the Settlement Agreement that he HAS to sign it over without any exchange (of funds). The settlement agreement is to be signed in the next two weeks. So this will let me know what his intentions REALLY are. And...If he doesn�t sign the agreement then I�ll stop paying half that mortgage that I so generously offered to do for one year!! Take that you bastard!
And ya know? To make all of this even more confusing is that supposedly he�s joined a Christian Church Divorce Support Group. WHAT???? And he still acts this nasty??? That just doesn�t make sense. What an ASS????
And on top of all of this, my Wonderful Sammy said he was worried his drinking too much on the cruise would get back to John and he would try to use that against me. Sam is just so thoughtful!! Its not like the girls were with us OR that we drove anywhere. We walked back to the hotel. And John has had plenty of durnken moments himself!!
And what Sammy still didn't give any thought to was that Lori basically told ME that John drank ALOT Sunday night, enough to be loud and complain non-stop about me. Then.... somehow he and the girls made it home. That would mean...he drove with MY girls in the car DRUNK!!! Oh yeah - I'm prepared for a fight here... bring it on!
Okay - I really hope it doesn't get to that, but he would regret it if he lets his stubborness get in the way!
That is all - I'm good now!
4:00 p.m. - 2006-02-01
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